At its best, Christianity has called people to move beyond selfishness to caring for their families, and beyond caring only for their families to caring for their neighbors, and beyond caring only for their neighbors to caring for the outsider, outcast, other, alien, refugee, and stranger . . . and even beyond that: to daring to love our enemies.
Read MoreMy father was born in Iran, home of Rumi, the Sufi master. For years, these words from one of Rumi’s poems greeted my students on the door to my classroom: “Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is field. I’ll meet you there.” I’m still searching for this field.
Read MoreOne of the ways I’m learning to deal with the enormous responsibility of being a parent is to practice contemplative prayer. I don’t always make time for it, but when I do, I feel better equipped to be the person I need to be for my son, my wife, and really all of the people in my life.
Read MoreI’ve been an educator for ten years, and I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve had to prepare myself to answer students’ questions about local, national, and international incidents of mass violence. Each time there’s a horrific bombing or shooting, our Head of School sends out an email to faculty and parents. The awfulness of the tragedy is acknowledged, and there are links to resources on how to discuss tragedies with kids.
Read MoreThe spiritual awakening that I’ve described in many of my books – and I am of the opinion that this awakening is the work of the people – happens when each one of us demands that our religious traditions and institutions live up to their own teachings and wisdom. Without the passion of the people, and our participation in these ancient traditions, institutions will always be uninspired, inauthentic, and hypocritical.
Read MoreSo many of us, myself included, are obsessed with being “busy.” Our culture is all about efficiency—about getting as much done as possible, as quickly as possible. This is true even in the way we physically move from one place to another. In his essay “An Entrance to The Woods,” Wendell Berry puts it this way: “We seem to grant to our high-speed roads and our airlines the rather thoughtless assumption that people can change places as rapidly as their bodies can be transported.”
Read MoreI’m so excited about Parenting Forward the book! I didn’t set out to write a parenting book. In fact, I have always been a faith writer, viewing the world through the lens of faith and culture. I was raised in a conservative evangelical faith, and in the past ten years or more of my life, I’ve embarked on the journey of what is commonly known as “deconstruction,” meaning a re-examining of the faith values of my childhood and whether they hold up to be true.
Read MoreWhen I was an English teacher, one of my favorite books to teach was Yann Martel’s Life of Pi. It’s a beautiful story, and it asks big questions about what we tell ourselves about who we are and why we’re here. People who read this book have very different interpretations of what it’s getting at, but this is how the author himself summarized what he was trying to say: “Life is a story; you can choose your own story; a story with God is the better story.”
Read MoreIt's not clear to me that we can ever fully comprehend the inner world of any other person. But we can, with children and adults, reach out in empathy and connection, in openness and listening, to try to receive what the other is willing to share. Even babies are capable of communicating when they're afraid and when they're curious, when they're overstimulated and when they're in need of reassurance--and children even more so.
Read MoreFor a whole host of reasons, it can be wildly complicated and confusing to be an adult right now, much less a parent. There’s a lot expected of us. Probably too much. Yet, for many of us, this overwhelming world can actually lead to curiosity about—or even desire for—religious faith.
Read MoreI think the most important thing to get right in your mind and your heart, regarding teaching anyone about God (whether kids or adults), is that God looks like Jesus. Throughout the journey of Scripture the picture of what God is like is constantly improving. Details are filled in, questions are answered, until finally Jesus Christ, God in human flesh, comes to earth and shows us once and for all what God is like. And the focal point of that demonstration is God climbing onto the cross to be killed by the very people he is willing to die for. So that’s where I start with kids too.
Read MoreWe hate conflict. We hate confusion. But perhaps it’s precisely in the moments when we’re feeling most confused or at odds with someone that we’re doing our best intellectual and emotional work. And if we can change the way we see conflict and confusion, especially when we’re upset, then these moments become opportunities for significant spiritual growth.
Read MoreOur mission is to bring the best in biblical scholarship to everyday people. We feel like scholars tend to speak in their ivory towers and use lingo and phrases that are insider-speak and hard for average folks to understand. And if the Bible is a book for everyone to engage in and find meaning, then it's a shame that some of the best thinking about what it is and what we should do with it is so inaccessible.
Read MoreI came to love Shakespeare years ago when I studied his plays in England for a summer. I still haven’t read them all, but my favorite of those I’ve read is The Tempest. This play—which happens to be Shakespeare’s last—is ultimately a story of unwarranted forgiveness and the difficulties we have being merciful to those who have wronged us.
Read MoreIt has been an extra hot summer here in Boston, so my wife and I have taken every opportunity to bring our 15-month-old son to the beach. Each time we go, he delights in playing in the sand and splashing in the shallow water. In equal measure, he loves greeting all the creatures on the beach: mollusks, seagulls, and other humans.
Read MoreI’ve known Sarah for about eight years now. We work together at a K-8 school, and I've always been impressed by her ability to connect with kids and the insights she has about their emotional health. She has lots of wisdom to share.
Read MoreIn the book of Genesis, there’s a memorable scene in which Jacob, the ancestor of all the people of Israel, falls asleep outside. With a rock as his pillow, he has a dream that a ladder extends from where he is all the way up to heaven, and angels are walking up and down it. From the top of the ladder, he hears the voice of God speaking to him.
Read MoreThe wisest parents I know raise their children according to a clear moral framework, and they also teach their children to follow their intuition. As I’ve studied the Old Testament, I’ve realized that God essentially does the same.
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